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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:32

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What I need from you?

Why is pornography still alive and not illegal? Why doesn’t the government do about tricking women into them?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What are the consequences of being addicted to something? Is it considered wrong to have an addiction?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Procrastinates a lot.

Are there any real-life examples of prisoners who escaped from hospitals and were never caught?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Two of my family members have recently converted to Islam and have brought shame on my family. How do I get them back into the fold of Hinduism?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why do black people prefer thick, curvy women?

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why do people smoke?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

How do military families handle communication when a service member is injured overseas?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

If freedom of speech is absolute, how come it's not applied for private spaces and for the Internet?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

How can the democrats say Mr. Trump is bad when he is already fixing this country again and he's not even president yet?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Making more friends is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

When I buy a house, do I automatically own all items the previous owner failed to remove from the property?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

What would you do if you found out that someone had broken into your home while you were sleeping?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How do you feel about the impending end of what Donald Trump calls "the Green New scam"?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.